The relationship that changed my life

I wish I could say I've had my fair share of relationships in my life, but to be honest, I haven't ever been the type of girl that's dated around or always needed a boyfriend. Here or there I may have had a boyfriend, but let's be real - I can count the number on one hand. Some days this makes me insecure. I mean, is there something wrong me? You'd think by 23, I'd be in a serious relationship by now. I mean, I'd at least I'd hoped I would. It's kind of a hard pill to swallow, but then again I am only 23 and have my whole life ahead of me. Some days I feel really confident and unwilling to settle for anything less than I deserve. Those days are great.

The good news, there's hope. I've recently entered into a relationship that has changed my life. Each and every day I'm completely and totally romanced, feeling nothing but pure love and grace. I never face disappointment and I'm always taken care of. Have you figured it out yet? My relationship is with my Savior, Jesus.

Though it may sound corny to most, this is probably the most incredible relationship I've ever entered in. I mean, I was 100% pursued by God and the decision was left up to me if I wanted to pursue Him. Each and every day I'm blessed with the ability to spend time with Him, just as I would in any other relationship. I learn more about Him each day, but also about myself. I've found my value and worth in Him - it comes from no one else. He is my whole identity and the reason for my existence. I've learned a lot about myself including what it means to be a woman of God. I'm finding out how much I'm worth and also how much I deserve in an earthly relationship.

This relationship has been like nothing I've ever experienced before. I see my life differently now. I find myself striving to be like Christ and less of this world. Even my perspectives have changed for the better. It's just been incredible to find this great love and have Him with me always. The coolest thing is, I've never been as in love as I am right now.